...Do you see that screenshot?
Notice the date range.
March 18th - April 3rd.
That's 15 days.
So, I said to her... "Relax."
"You've always worked because you enjoy teaching. Not because we've needed the money."
Melanie, though, has a mindset like my mom. (fixed mindset)
Money is scarce.
Money is hard to come by!
Money is earned through putting in more hours. And you only get a promotion every couple of years.
But that's stupid!
That's how society keeps people 'shackled as slaves' to doing shit they don't want to do.
A few of Melanie's teacher friends, too, commented:"It must be nice to just NOT have to work."
Melanie, I'll point out, is not me.
She's much kinder ;-)
...More reserved.
She is not as "scorched earth" as I am.
Statements like that, "It must be nice..." make her feel guilty or lazy or like she doesn't have drive or ambition because she isn't working.
My response?
"Tell your friends, it IS nice!
Then add...
...& if any of your husbands committed themselves to learn how to make more money, as my mine has - you wouldn't have to work, either, if you didn't want to."
You see...
To the vast majority of folks in our society, if you gave them the option to quit working but to still have financial security, they'd quit working in a heartbeat.
Most aren't given that option, though, because they have to "pay bills."
And because those bills "must get paid"... or debtors put the proverbial noose around their neck...
People choose to "stay trapped" in jobs & professions, & perform services they dislike, trading time for money, etc., because they feel as if they have no other choice.
I SAY BULLSHIT.
I have a choice.
You have a choice.
We ALL have a choice.
It's just that most people refuse to make that choice.
Or, should I say, that commitment, to learn what is necessary, to escape that reality they wish to change.
People are trapped BECAUSE they choose to be trapped.
The Lesser Self, driven by fear, ensures that!
& btw, that teacher friend of Melanie's (there was a multiple of them), shouldn't be waiting for her husband to "retire her." She could learn the necessary skills, too.
But the Lesser Self ...(here comes that motherfucker)
& his favorite excuse...
..."But I don't have time."
..."Not right now."
..."Maybe next week."
..."Next month."
Before you know it, 5 years have passed!
...10 years have passed.
And the people bitching about not having enough money for X, Y, or Z, "It must be nice..." - those people - are still bitching & whining about not having enough money.
I can't stand those folks!
If you dislike your situation, CHANGE IT.
MAN UP!
MAKE A FUCKIN' COMMITMENT
& CHANGE IT.
Of course, if you have all money you need & financial freedom you want, & never bitch about money or have to sacrifice in your decision-making in regards to money, then obviously I'm not talking to you.
I'm talking to the people who say...
"It must be nice..."
Yes.
It IS nice!
And if anybody ever says that shit to you, remind them, they have the power to choose, to have, to achieve, the same outcome you committed yourself to achieve.
A pull-up.
A marathon.
A higher income.
Losing 30-pounds.
It's ALL a choice.
People who feel stuck, CHOOSE to stay stuck!
For example, if you hate client work, then commit yourself to learning how to replace that income, so you can give that time to your family instead of selling it to clients.
Or don't...
But don't bitch about it.
Don't be one of those people, who keeps saying, "It must be nice..."
Yes, (again) it IS nice!
AND IT COULD BE YOURS, TOO.
As an Extreme-Ownership type of person, don't be afraid to remind people of THAT - the power to choose!
Roman Alvarado, for example, is a guy who CHOSE!
He'd been a copywriter for 5 years & 5 months. Grinding. Working to master his craft. But trading time for money. Never getting any closer to freedom.
Someday, he kept telling himself, "I want to become an Offer owner, not just a copywriter for hire," but he felt 'stuck' in the trap of client work.
Then, though, he decided...
He chose to go "ALL IN."
Within 6 days, after setting up his FB ads, following the instructions laid out in our INCOME program, he made his first online sale.